I wrote this poem after reading this excellent post. I’m often mortified by the casual disrespect that men engage in vis-a-vis women, and to my mind, every man is responsible for ending such actions. That anyone would be forced to “erect defenses” for merely living their lives is an absurd notion. Let’s relieve a little human suffering by engaging those of the opposite sex with the same respect we ask for ourselves. If we create a vibrant enough echo perhaps the madness will stop.
The petty and their predations can, therefore, they will. It's that subtle shift of power to force a nervous target still. What right have they that press to pronounce an ill intention? Drown them all in a vibrant echo, and through the flood erect defenses.
Saadat Hassan Manto-a renowned Urdu writer-wrote that men only treat the women of their own households as women. The rest, for them, are pieces of carnal meat. They think that they’re disposed at and for their pleasure, whenever they will, wherever they will.
It’s frikking sad is what it is.
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It only changes when we do.
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The only way to create Peace is to Become Peace. This poem speaks so well of this…and yes, it is very sad. But it’s not only women who are treated this way. Male, Female, Elder, Child, it doesn’t matter; is subjugation is the goal of the unsavory heart, we are all potential victims.
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Right you are, my friend. This little piece just popped out when I read that young woman’s post. Struck a nerve. It’s dispiriting.
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In my opinion, we each have to teach people how we want to be treated. We have to let them know that we have boundaries right off the bat. No…means just that. You don’t always have to speak. You can show by your body language that there is a line that is not to be crossed. Personal space is just that, personal space. My beloved Mother always said: “Charity Begins at Home!” She wouldn’t allow me to disrespect her, myself, or other people. I am thankful for that.
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It’s a great guiding principle. Setting boundaries is not always easy but it is necessary. There are also those who refuse to accept boundaries and I believe that by working together to show them society’s expectations, we can right that ship as well.
Thank you for the thoughtful comment 🙂
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You are so welcome!
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Just read and replied to the post. Good Poem.
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Glad you had a chance to read it as well. Thank you for the kind words 🙂
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🙂
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Glad you had a chance to read it as well. Thank you for the kind words 🙂
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‘Drown them all in a vibrant echo’ 🙂
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That is the goal!
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Sometimes women put themselves in the position to be subjugated.. But then sometimes male chauvinists won’t just give up…..nice poem really
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No doubt you’re correct on both scores. Thank you for reading.
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